Amber ([info]clari_princess) wrote,
2005-07-20 17:57:00
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What a girl wants

Ok, so since guys are typically quoted as saying some form of the phrase, "What the heck (or other terms) do women want??!!" Macia (groban_girl) and i came up with a list a little while ago and i'll finally post it. It doesn't get easier than this guys....

1) Random flower givage
2) Serenade outside window (preferably a good singer)
3) Stop being jerks, idiot or other forms of typical "guyageness"
4) Be nice in general
5) Take initiative!!!! (Common...or if you like, c'mon guys, get it together, be men!!)
6) Ask us to dance (kinda goes with #6)
7) Start conversations (also with #6)
8) Picnics
9) Ride amusement park rides with us
10) Be spontaneous
11) Plan!!
**I know this seems to contradict #10 but figure it out!!!)
12)Not be embarrased of us
13) Not toy with female emotions
14) Not be mean
15) Share FOOD!!!
16) Buy us FOOD!!!
17) Watch scary movies/ haunted housed with us (**even though we dont' like them or the idea of being scared, we like the idea of being comforted)
18) Cuddle buddies
19) Be creative
20) Stop being so lazy and do some of this stuff!!!!!

There, i don't think it gets much easier. For those guys who think females have a plot to confuse and otherwise frustrate the male race (which is absolutely true) take this as a giant gift. USE IT!!

Feel free to add note/comments of your own. I know this is rather short, but we can't give away all the secrets now can we?

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[info]ayakitsune

July 20 2005, 23:32:45 UTC 6 years ago

I think the whole lot of you are trying way too hard. No offense.

[info]cqhottmeyer

July 21 2005, 02:57:41 UTC 6 years ago

jeeeeez. apparently girls demand a lot. its not even worth it for a guy to try that hard

[info]megsamigas

July 21 2005, 04:59:22 UTC 6 years ago

21. Not to be too clingy, but touchy/around enough to make it known that "we are their girl" and he is our guy. Again, have fun figuring that out.
22.Be sentimental, sensitve. Everyonce in awhile, surprise us by saying something sweet. This action scores so many brownie points.
23.Hang out with your guy friends, let us hang out with our girl fiends. And on other nights, only allow room for the two of us.
24.If we evil glare you, and i mean a serious evil glare, and follow by pulling away from you, apologize. And at least pretend you have an idea about what is wrong. Ask us later when we've calmed down exactly what was wrong because we wont be as bitter, and wont bite your head off.
25.Tell the truth. Dont lie, we'll find out. TRUST ME.

I think that satisfies my bitterness for tonight.

[info]clari_princess

July 21 2005, 05:01:13 UTC 6 years ago

We really don't expect this much but it would sincerely be extremely nice.

[info]ayakitsune

July 21 2005, 12:22:46 UTC 6 years ago

Then don't direct this towards the entire clump of male existence. There will be guys who are willing to do this anyway--find and date them, don't rant and rave against the ones less inclined. If you can't accept them for who they are they won't accept you, and if you expect this much of them, they can quite fairly expect just as much of you.

Also remember that your list is not what EVERY girl wants. This list is what YOU want. Be wary of wanting too many specifics. If you're holding yourself up waiting for an ideal, you may miss out on some really great relationships that you wouldn't have expected. In fact the best one you ever have will likely come as a huge surprise.

I'm sorry if I'm coming across as rude making a fuss over this, that's not my intention and it's nothing against you. I just think your bitterness at single life may be slowly turning you into a man-hater, and I'm a big fan of hating individual people as opposed to stereotypes.

[info]clari_princess

July 21 2005, 13:20:32 UTC 6 years ago

Don't worry about being too harsh. It's true. Honestly, I dont' expect everything, and i know it's not realistic. But, in a moment of disney movie, princess, hazy bitterness, we wrote this and i thought it would be interesting to see what people said. But if you think about it. It would be nice.....but if everything happens that you expect will happen, it's no fun. (haha, believe me, not a "man hater" I love men!!!)

[info]sneeshy

July 21 2005, 14:04:56 UTC 6 years ago

i don't think you'll find many serenaders in the crowd

[info]clari_princess

July 21 2005, 18:35:53 UTC 6 years ago

I'm not holding out for one, but one can always hope....
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